WHAT MAKES ATTRACTION
PART ONE: GETTING INTO THE GROUP
STEP ONE
OPENER
Do improvised or canned opener
Give yourself a time constraint (“I can only stay for a minute because
I’m with my friends over there”)
Body language as if you’re about to leave
Convey personality, smile, but don’t be over-enthusiastic
STEP TWO (you can also fractionate opener to do this)
BREAK INTO THEIR WORLD
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This is the basic structure:
1. Get a commitment
2. Reward her
3. She shows interest
4. Reveal your attraction (SOI)
5. Find info
6. Make appropriate close or continuation
Wayne Elise “Juggler”
Get the girl engaged ASAP. Active Disinterest does not mean that you are A-Sexual. Use active disinterest and engage the group when common sense tells you that it is the path of least resistance. If her interest level is at a point where you need not do so, then don’t. Mystery himself has done this as long as I’ve known him, and guys need not be concerned about losing sets by doing so. If you detect that the friends WILL interfere, you can also re-engage them easily if you feel that that is the best [...]
