Inner Game | Social Attraction

Active disinterest – Epitome of attraction

Some thoughts – hopefully helpful despite their absurd complexity.

Distinction:

C&F False disqualification.

ACTUAL false disqualification.

The C&F False disqualification is like busting her on her manneurisms. “I’m
gay. This is my boyfriend. You can’t to us, we’re gay.”

Or she’s giggling, and you say “Go away! Go away!”, while doing the pushaway
move that I described in the Tonguedown notes.

Or saying [...]

by Tyler Durden

We don’t only want entrance, but we want it free and we want to be bumped to the front of the line.

Additional material on qualification:

There exists many social SUBCOMMUNICATIONS that convey social value.

breaking rapport
neutral to rapport
trying to gain rapport

This goes on in social interactions all day long. Notice that the “coolest” people in [...]

by Tyler Durden

I noticed a pattern recently about how I implement habits.
Here is how I implement a habit.

Usually I’ll get some idea of some over the top thing that I want to accomplish.

So maybe I weigh 120 pounds and I want to make the college football team. Or maybe I’ve had failing grades all through [...]